My First $1 Million: General Manager in Construction/Home Services, 46, Indiana

Welcome to Kiplinger's My First $1 Million series, in which we hear from people who have made $1 million. They're sharing how they did it and what they're doing with it. This time, we hear from a married 46-year-old general manager in construction/home services in Indiana.

See our earlier profiles, including a writer in New England, a literacy interventionist in Colorado, a semiretired entrepreneur in Nashville and an events industry CEO in Northern New Jersey. (See all of the profiles here.)

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These features are intended to provide a window into how different people build their savings — they're not intended to provide financial advice.

THE BASICS

How did you make your first $1 million?

My father and I started investing in real estate in 2004 with the purchase of a single-family home as a rental. Over the years, we reinvested the rental income in order to acquire additional properties.

Simultaneous to that, I worked in the business that my parents had started. Then the 2008 financial crisis nearly ended it all.

As a construction-related business, we went from building 100-plus homes each year in 2006 to zero in 2008 — nearly destroying what my parents had spent 25 years creating.

Together, we restructured and refocused the company in a new direction, focusing on smaller, repeatable maintenance and repair jobs rather than the big-ticket (and big-risk) business of building new homes.

We used the equity we had built up in the rental properties to convince the bank not to call in the loans on the construction business. It was slow-going and took more than a decade. But day by day, things got better. The business got stronger.

My parents were able to retire comfortably along the way.

And then, in 2021, I had the opportunity to sell the business to a private equity-backed firm for a life-changing amount of money.

What are you doing with the money?

I invested the majority of the proceeds from the sale of the business in the stock market.

THE FUN STUFF

Did you do anything to celebrate?

My wife and I took four of our closest friends to dinner at Alinea, a Michelin-starred restaurant in Chicago — something we had dreamed of ever since we had seen the restaurant featured on a Netflix show.

The food is long gone, but the memories of an amazing time with friends will last a lifetime!

What is the best part of making $1 million?

For me, really learning how to run a business was the best part. I'm not ashamed to admit that up until 2008, I was looking at things through the lens of an employee.

While it wasn't until 2012 that I gained a small ownership stake in the company in exchange for the equity I contributed from my rental properties, I learned how to shift my mindset and put the good of the company first.

I learned to trust that if I took really good care of the business, it would take really good care of me and my family.

Did your life change?

Yes and no. It is unbelievably freeing to know that we no longer need to work for a paycheck.

My wife switched from a job in health care IT, where she was constantly stressed, to one that she enjoys and where she works from home.

I am planning on stepping down from my leadership role in the construction business at the end of the year.

It is beyond amazing to know that we can do these things because of the financial safety net we've built.

Any plans to retire early?

I am thinking about retiring early — though I'm not sure exactly what that looks like. I find myself wondering about what I will do to find fulfillment in my days.

LOOKING BACK

Anything you would do differently?

If I knew then what I know now, I would not have waited for the financial crisis to restructure the construction business into a more sustainable segment of the industry.

Did you work with a financial adviser?

At first, yes. After I sold the business, I worked with the wealth advisory team at a local bank.

They were good people, but the costs just didn't make sense to me in the long run, so we moved our portfolio to a self-managed brokerage account at E*Trade.

Did anyone help you early on?

My parents, by giving me a job in their business right out of school. I would never have gotten to where I am now without them.

Does anyone know you're a millionaire?

Yes — and it became quite the issue in my family. In retrospect, I would have handled the sale of the business differently, but that is the benefit of hindsight.

Things have largely settled down now, but it was fairly rocky with some of my siblings for a while.

LOOKING AHEAD

Plans for your next $1 million?

My wife and I have decided to take some of Warren Buffett's advice: invest in well-managed, low-cost index funds with the goal of living off of the returns.

Taking this approach over the past four years has already almost doubled what we got from selling the business.

Any advice for others trying to make their first $1 million?

Pay yourself first. Take care of the basics like food and shelter, but then make sure you've got access to three to six months of monthly expenses. This (emergency fund) will give you some security so that you can take a few risks.

Once you've got that in place, start putting the money you were saving for emergencies each week into some other sort of investment. You're already accustomed to not spending that money — put it into your 401(k), save for a down payment on a house, use it to start a business.

Whatever you do, put it to good use.

Lastly, look for ways to treat yourself without breaking the bank. For instance, I used to buy lattes every day on the way to work.

When I realized how much that was costing me, I bought myself a decent espresso machine.

I still make my coffee at home for a tiny fraction of what I was paying — even after factoring in the initial purchase of the machine.

Do you have an estate plan?

Yes. Our attorney recommended that we establish a revocable trust and pour-over wills to simplify our estate and to avoid probate.

He also helped us to put in place various power of attorney documents.

What do you wish you'd known …

When you first started saving? I wish that I had known the true value of compounding interest back when I first got out of school. While it turned out well in the end, I missed almost a decade of growth by spending my disposable income on things that seemed fun at the time but now I can't even remember.

When you first started investing? I wish I had followed Warren Buffett's advice sooner. I initially tried researching and investing in individual stocks rather than low-cost index funds. It turns out that I'm not very good at that!

When you first started working with a financial professional? Even with the best of intentions, a fiduciary can lead you astray. Maintain ownership of your investment decisions, ask lots of questions and don't be afraid to make a change if the answers don't make sense to you.

Learning that lesson cost me over $50,000 over a two-year period.

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