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7 Ways to Slash the Cost of a Funeral

Say goodbye to your departed loved one without spending a fortune. Here’s how.

In addition to the emotional toll, dying can take a heavy financial toll on the living. The median cost of a funeral runs about $8,500, according to the latest figures from the National Funeral Directors Association, including embalming, viewing, a hearse, a metal casket, a vault and some other related services. The price tag, 29.3% higher than it was a decade earlier, could come as a shock to grieving heirs and take a bite out of your estate.

There are two important points to keep in mind about the $8,500 figure. First, it doesn’t take into account some common cemetery expenses such as a burial site, marker, paid obituary and flowers. Second, it’s the median, or middle, price; some funerals can cost upward of $25,000.

Prepaying for your own funeral is one way to spare your survivors the hassle and expense, but generally speaking Kiplinger recommends thinking twice about prepayment because there are better ways to set aside cash for a funeral. A smarter approach might be to focus on reducing funeral costs. Here are seven ways to save.

1. Compare prices. Licensed funeral homes are required by law to give you a General Price List, or GPL, which breaks out funeral expenses. Ask for a copy if one isn’t offered. “It’s apples to apples and oranges to oranges,” says Stephen Kemp, a licensed funeral director with Haley Funeral Directors in Southfield, Mich. “Families can compare and contrast.” Funeral homes are also required to provide pricing information by phone.

2. Stick to a budget. According to the Funeral Consumers Alliance, families in the throes of grief suddenly planning a funeral can “rush into making a decision, often resulting in unnecessary costs leading to even more stress down the road.” The nonprofit group, which advocates for affordable funeral planning, advises families to develop a budget and hold firm. Kemp says good funeral directors will either work within the budget or recommend a funeral home that can.

3. Think outside the box. The median price of a metal casket sold by a funeral home is around $2,400. High-end caskets can run into five figures. But you aren’t required to buy a casket from a funeral home, and the funeral home must accept a casket purchased elsewhere including online. Caskets at Costco start at $950, and the warehouse club ships to most states. Other online sellers include Overstock.com and BestPriceCaskets.com. A funeral home also can’t charge you a handling fee for receiving a casket purchased elsewhere.

4. Consider cremation. Cremation rates in the U.S. are approaching 50%, according to the Cremation Association of North America, and by 2019 the majority of Americans are projected to opt for cremation over burial. One big benefit of the shift is cost. The median price of a funeral with a viewing and cremation is about $6,000, the National Funeral Directors Association found, versus $8,500 for a comparable funeral with burial. Cremation expenses can be reduced even further by turning down the cremation casket (median funeral home price: $1,000). Funeral homes are required to offer inexpensive alternatives to cremation caskets, such as simple containers made of unfinished wood or fiberboard. Supplying your own urn (median funeral home price: $280) will trim the bill, too.

5. Skip the embalming. Preserving the body through embalming isn’t a routine requirement for every death. However, many funeral homes will require embalming if there will be a public viewing. But if a service is held within 24 to 48 hours with no public viewing, says Kemp, embalming may not be necessary. Even if the service can’t be held so quickly, refrigeration is an acceptable alternative to embalming in most states. The National Funeral Directors Association puts the median cost of embalming at $695.

6. Keep the service simple. The median charge for the use of funeral home facilities and staff for a viewing and ceremony adds up to $915, according to the National Funeral Directors Association. If you insist on a funeral home service but can’t afford the full production, Kemp says funeral directors will usually work with you to cut corners. Remember, you aren’t required to purchase a funeral home’s complete package. Instead, choose only the goods and services that fit your budget and needs. With cremations, in particular, the memorial service could be held elsewhere for a lot less, adds Kemp.

7. Donate your body to science. Science Care is one company that acts as a go-between for whole-body donors and labs doing medical research. For donors accepted by Science Care, costs are covered for cremation, transportation and filing of the death certificate. Cremated remains are returned to the family at no cost within three to five weeks. Another outfit that accepts whole-body donations is LifeLegacy. Certain factors including infectious diseases (hepatitis, HIV/AIDS and so on) can result in a donation being rejected.

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