The 5 Biggest Regrets People Have About Retirement

It is easy to identify things you could have done differently knowing what you know today. If only we had a crystal ball, life could be so much easier.

Well, it is not a crystal ball, but we do have those who have gone before us to pull from their experiences to help improve our future. After nearly 30 years of helping people with retirement, I hear a lot of the same things repeated from retirees about what they would have done differently.

Here are the top five regrets I hear from retirees that you may want to consider as you make important decisions about your future:

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I Wish I Had Started My Transition Plans Earlier

Obviously, the sooner you start saving for retirement, the longer growth compounds for you over time. But saving isn’t the only thing retirees regret putting off. Many retirees wait until the last few weeks or months before they want to retire to begin planning for the actual transition.

After discussing what is involved with their transition into retirement — from accumulating assets to protecting and preparing to distribute assets — I often hear that they wish they would have started planning their retirement sooner. They admit that there is more to the preparation than they thought was needed.

The biggest retirement myth is the thought that having a large 401(k) or investment account is all that is needed to retire but, there is more to it than simply having enough money and choosing a date. It is best to map things out a few years prior to the big day.

I Wish I Had Gotten Help with High-Level Strategies Sooner

This one piggybacks a bit on the previous one, suggesting that you only know what you know. Making assumptions about your retirement is a slippery slope because there is so much to be considered, and time is of the essence for a plan to unfold and be successful.

If you want to avoid adding to your “woulda, coulda, shoulda” list, don’t navigate the maze of decisions, actions and products alone. Even if you have a heightened understanding of the markets, your access to products and understanding the tax implications of retirement is difficult for even a seasoned financial adviser to keep up with, much less someone in an unrelated field.

A real challenge for some people is accepting that they might have blind spots in their understanding of what needs to be done and keeping an open mind to a professional’s opinion.

I Wish I Had Been Open to Changing Strategies

This is a big one, and I recently had an in depth discussion about this on my podcast, How To Create the Perfect Investment Portfolio. (opens in new tab) There are certain phases of growing assets that require a different approach, and knowing when you are entering into another phase is critical for capitalizing on these opportunities.

Many times, when an investor begins saving for their retirement, they begin investing in mutual funds and will often blow right past timely forks in the road to ultimately find themselves at retirement with the same approach as they had when they started.

To compound the problem, some will even maintain this approach well into their retirement, never considering the fact that there may be a better way to hold assets. This is concerning because there is so much more that can be done to grow, utilize and protect assets if time would be taken to understand the possibilities.

I Wish I Had Kept My Eye on the Prize

We live in a society that promotes consumption, and while there is a thin line between living abundantly versus living in scarcity, finding the right balance between living for now and saving is the key to success.

Of course, building a business that grows rapidly and is sold for a hefty profit, hitting the lottery or being born with a trust fund is not really the example I am pointing too. It is the typical person who is working, supporting a family, covering the needs of the day while thinking about retirement. There is a lot to unpack for this one, but the idea that saving 10% of your annual salary is going to get you where you want to be is a misnomer, in my opinion. It is guaranteed to fall short of the ideal scenario when it comes time to retire.

What I have seen work most effectively are those who stretch their savings into the 20% and 30% or more range with the end in mind. They want success and freedom of time sooner than later. To accelerate the progression, many will begin businesses, invest in alternative investments, such as real estate, and will focus more on wealth creation rather than a desire to live a high-end lifestyle.

I Wish I Hadn’t Put Off the Difficult Decisions

Procrastination is something many people struggle with. We all have things we really should get done that we don’t want to deal with.

For retirees, the discussion around estate planning and long-term care brings to light our mortality and the realization that some will need assisted living later in life. No one really wants to discuss this or face the possibilities while trying to plan for retirement but, the truth is that it is an ideal time to have the discussion since your entire financial situation is being reconstructed to provide you the means to retire.

I hear from people routinely who say they have a sick spouse and want to know how they can protect assets from nursing home expenses or they inform me that their spouse has passed and don’t know where everything is or where to start with getting their affairs in order.

The clients who get out in front of these matters certainly have a greater sense of security than those who leave it hanging over their heads for years into their retirement.

There is a lot to take in from those who have paved the path before you and while some of these points may seem like common sense, the reality is that they aren’t being followed. It is why I still today listen to people sharing their thoughts with me about what they wish they would have done differently.

If you’re looking for a path to follow in your effort to reduce the onset of regret, check out The Successful Retirement Checklist (opens in new tab).