4 Simple Habits to Build Wealth Faster

Sure, making a lot of money helps, but research shows there are four behaviors that can be even more important to building true wealth.

As a young child, did you ever dream of having $1 million in the bank?

I used to think that way, but my perspective changed over the years. $1 million is no longer a guarantee of financial freedom. For someone spending $200,000 a year in good health, $1 million won’t go very far during retirement. For someone else who spends $40,000 annually and has Social Security income, saving less than $1 million may be appropriate.

Numbers can change. The stock market moves up and down. You may be in a high-paying career now but could end up in a lower-paying profession (or vice versa).

Instead, focus on things within your control, starting with your mindset.

Mindset, Vision & Values

Steven Covey’s 1989 bestseller The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People coined the term abundance mentality. An abundance mindset helps you:

  • Create meaningful life experiences
  • Pursue new, interesting opportunities
  • Live a full and satisfying life
  • Find happiness even amidst struggle
  • Feel inspired and creative

True transformation requires an abundance mindset. If you foster an abundance mentality, you see the potential to move beyond present circumstances and have hope in a brighter future. By contrast, you are consistently concerned that there will never be enough when operating under the scarcity mindset. You may feel like a victim most of the time. Emotionally, an abundance mindset makes you feel empowered and engaged while a scarcity mindset causes frustration and feelings of being overwhelmed.

Once you have an abundance mindset, begin to craft a personal vision. This vision encompasses your ideal future life — the one you may not be living yet but hope to live within a few years. The vision should be congruent with your values. Next, turn your attention to bite-sized goals.

Goal-Setting for the Long Haul

You’ve likely heard of the SMART goal-setting framework before. If not, here’s a quick recap. Make your goals:

  • Specific
  • Measurable
  • Achievable
  • Relevant
  • Time-Bound

Nonetheless, this SMART framework gives little attention to daily habits. Those habits will consistently drive you toward your goal or further away from it. If your primary goal is to run a half-marathon on June 2, your habit may be a daily run — with one or two rest days weekly. Likewise, if your goal is to increase your net financial worth by $50,000 this year, there are certain behaviors, such as automatic savings, that will help you reach the goal easier.

4 Wealth-Building Habits

Dr. Thomas J. Stanley thoroughly researched wealth-building behaviors and revealed the results in The Millionaire Next Door. In his 1990s survey of over 14,000 affluent American households, Stanley concluded that households can become wealthy without six- or seven-figure salaries.

Dr. Stanley passed away in a car accident in 2015, and his daughter Dr. Sarah Stanley Fallaw recently published The Next Millionaire Next Door. Dr. Fallaw confirms that many of the behaviors identified in Stanley’s research continue to play a significant role in wealth accumulation now, and behavior change is possible.

She finds that frugality, diligence, hard work and time management are more important than salary alone. Choice of spouse, career and location are also influential.

Habit No. 1: Frugality

Frugality means you spend less than you earn. Most millionaires are able to ignore the temptation to buy a bigger house, newer car, latest tech gadget and so on. They may notice what other people are buying but don’t go on a shopping spree themselves.

Habit No. 2: Discipline

Self-made millionaires are also disciplined. They choose moderation over extremes. If they buy a luxury car, it’s often a used one. You’re unlikely to find them living in the most expensive, elaborate house on the block. As investors, many millionaires don’t try to time the market. Slow and steady wins the race.

Habit No. 3: Hard Work

Another defining characteristic of many millionaires is their work ethic. Money wasn’t handed to them on a silver platter. It’s incredibly difficult to build long-term wealth yourself if you’ve relied solely on handouts from parents or other family members. The adage “from shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations” rings true: A sense of entitlement quickly erodes family wealth. Millionaires profiled in Dr. Fallaw’s book are willing to roll up their sleeves, launch businesses or stick it out in high-paying careers until they’re financially independent.

Habit: No. 4: Time Management

Effective allocation of time, energy and resources is another guiding trait of self-made millionaires. Even if hiring an outside financial adviser, a millionaire still monitors the family budget and ensures the investment portfolio matches the level of risk taken. He or she takes the role as household CFO seriously but may also rely on a professional with deep expertise in tax mitigation, charitable giving or college saving strategies.

Above all, millionaires are able to transform income into wealth. They create a personal vision, evaluate values and interests, set goals and actively pursue those goals. They are also conscientious, striving to become a better version of themselves.

Do You Have What It Takes?

Do you share one or more of the traits profiled above? If not, what behavioral changes can you make? Take this quick quiz and see how your financial outlook impacts your ability to build long-term wealth.

About the Author

Deborah L. Meyer, CPA/PFS, CFP®

CEO, WorthyNest LLC

Deborah L. Meyer, CFP®, CPA/PFS, CEPA and AFCPE® Member, is the award-winning author of Redefining Family Wealth: A Parent’s Guide to Purposeful Living. Deb is the CEO of WorthyNest®, a fee-only, fiduciary wealth management firm that helps Christian parents and Christian entrepreneurs across the U.S. integrate faith and family into financial decision-making. She also provides accounting, exit planning and tax strategies to family-owned businesses through SV CPA Services

Most Popular

The 15 Best Stocks for the Rest of 2022
stocks to buy

The 15 Best Stocks for the Rest of 2022

The lesson of the past two years: Be ready for anything. Our 15 best stocks to buy for the rest of 2022 reflect several possible outcomes for the seco…
June 21, 2022
Your Guide to Roth Conversions
Special Report
Tax Breaks

Your Guide to Roth Conversions

A Kiplinger Special Report
February 25, 2021
The Best Bank for You, 2022
Making Your Money Last

The Best Bank for You, 2022

Check out our list of the best candidates for your next financial institution based on interest rates, fees and other features.
June 23, 2022


Retirement Comfort: How to Avoid Running Out of Money
retirement planning

Retirement Comfort: How to Avoid Running Out of Money

When it comes to retirement planning, one thing all of us worry about is whether we will have enough money to last. Financial professionals can help y…
June 25, 2022
33 States with No Estate Taxes or Inheritance Taxes

33 States with No Estate Taxes or Inheritance Taxes

Even with the federal exemption from death taxes raised, retirees should pay more attention to estate taxes and inheritance taxes levied by states.
June 23, 2022
10 Most Tax-Friendly States for Retirees

10 Most Tax-Friendly States for Retirees

Moving to a low-tax state in retirement can help make your retirement savings last longer.
June 23, 2022
Without (Increasing) Income, There Is No Retirement
retirement planning

Without (Increasing) Income, There Is No Retirement

Your retirement security boils down to how much sustainable cash flow your retirement assets can safely and reliably produce.
June 16, 2022