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12 Things I'm Thankful For

When times get tough, count your financial blessings.

By Erin Burt, Contributing Editor, Kiplinger.com

November 13, 2008
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What a year. The markets are in mayhem. The economic outlook is dismal. Our IRA and 401(k) balances are disappearing before our eyes. With Thanksgiving approaching, it seems there isn't much to be thankful for when it comes to our finances.

However, try thinking of it this way, as did Bing Crosby in the 1954 musical White Christmas:

When I'm worried and I can't sleep
I count my blessings instead of sheep,
And I fall asleep counting my blessings.
When my bankroll is getting small
I think of when I had none at all,
And I fall asleep counting my blessings.

I sat down to itemize my personal financial blessings, thinking I could come up with, maybe, five for this column. I came up with three times that many. (I limited myself to 12 here, for space.) Try the exercise yourself, and you'll be surprised, too, at all that's good in your financial life.

I'm thankful for...

1. Time. Being young and broke has its drawbacks. But it's a blessing when the stock market takes a nosedive. Sure, my investments have tanked like everyone else's. On the bright side, I didn't have a fortune in there. I have the comfort of knowing that I'm investing for the long-term. I have plenty of time to get my money back tenfold.

2. Parents who didn't indulge me. My father was a high school teacher, and my mom stayed home with us six kids. Needless to say, money was tight. But I don't remember ever feeling deprived. I grew up in a home where financial decisions weren't made on a whim, where budgeting and bargain shopping were a way of life, and, most importantly, where I felt secure and loved.

As I grew up and headed out on my own, it didn't matter to me that I couldn't afford designer jeans and restaurant meals every night -- I never had them before. And I knew that there were more important things in life than money. (See Lessons I've Learned From Being Broke.)

3. Mutual funds. They allow me to diversify across several stocks with just a little money. I can spread out the risk and make investing a little less of a gamble. And that's something to appreciate, especially in times like this. (See A Beginning Investor's Best Friend to learn more.)

4. Health insurance. As a freelancer, I don't have any job benefits. But I'm thankful to be married to a man who does -- and that his employer extends his health insurance to our kids and me. In the past three months alone, our family has been to the doctor or dentist 11 times for everything from routine checkups to a broken bone. I don't even want to imagine the cost if we had to pay for those visits out of pocket. (If you don't have employer-sponsored coverage, see Health Insurance for Twentysomethings for money-saving tips.)

5. No credit-card debt. It is so liberating to know that when I buy something, I can afford it, and I'm not wasting any money on interest charges.

I do use a credit card -- a rewards card for which I get cash back. I'm grateful for the discipline to pay it off every month. I've racked up enough cash rewards this year to cover about 25% of my holiday gift budget, and I haven't paid a dime of interest. It feels good to have my money working for me instead of against me.

6. Online savings accounts. They're easy to use, accessible and pay higher interest than the savings account at my bank up the street. Plus, the money I stash there (for emergencies and other savings pursuits, such as vacations and car insurance) is safe with the banks' FDIC insurance -- something I'm truly grateful for as banks fail across the country. (Is your money safe? Take our quiz to find out.)

7. The Internet. From online bill paying to easy money transfers, the Internet has simplified my daily financial tasks. Plus, I can check my account balances, compare prices or research an investment with a few clicks of the mouse.

8. A home. I bought my first house last year. But I'm not too concerned about falling real estate prices because I try not to look at my house as an investment. To me, it's a place to live.

Sure, it's a bummer the value has fallen a bit since I bought it, but I plan to live here at least five years. If prices are still down by the time I sell, I won't lose much sleep over it. I paid for a valuable service that I needed: a roof over my head. So what if I don't make a 20% profit when I sell? I'm grateful I have a place to call home.

9. A spouse who shares my financial goals. My husband and I may not always agree on whose turn it is to do the dishes, but we do share the same vision about our financial future. And we regularly assess our progress together. Plus, on a day-to-day basis, I'm thankful we're both savers. I don't have to worry about coming home to a new car in the driveway. We discuss all major purchases and plan ahead to pay for them -- a huge comfort.

10. Friends who aren't impressed by money. Along the same lines, it's nice to know that I don't have to impress anyone. I'm thankful my friends and family like me the way I am -- frugal.

11. Low-rate debt. An upside to the flagging economy is low interest rates. We got a good rate on our mortgage, and that means I have a home I can afford -- a blessing especially in a time when that isn't the case for many people. I'm also grateful that my husband was able to consolidate his school loans near record-low rates a few years ago, saving us thousands of dollars.

12. Generosity. Over the years my husband and I have been the recipients of many people's generosity. From a mysterious box of food left on our doorstep our first Thanksgiving as married, starving students, to my parents recently spending three weeks sleeping on my couch and building rooms in my basement.

I'm thankful for the ability to give something back to others in need, and I'm thankful that charity doesn't have to cost a lot of money to make a big difference.

Your turn. What are you thankful for this year?

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Reader Comments (21)

Posted by: Rafael at 11/13/2008 09:13:25 AM

What's really ironic about this story is that just last night I wrote out a list similar to this in a Word document for my fiance. All too often she sees the negative in our financial situation, so I thought that it would be a good thing to put something together that would let her visualize the positive things and what we have going for us. We find ourselves being grateful for a lot of the same things Erin finds herself thankful for. We are both 25 years old, have a great, loving family, we're engaged to be married in June, we have a great network of friends, we have a plan where we will be completely debt free by March, etc. And although I work in the banking industry and each day that goes by I'm just thankful to have a job, it's good to know that we have a lot of these other things going for ourselves. Sometimes you just need to see it (visually) to believe it.

Posted by: Keith at 11/13/2008 10:19:51 AM

I am thankful for all of the above and the reminder that there is much more to life than money and things.

Posted by: Christopher at 11/13/2008 10:40:37 AM

Wonderful article! We all have something to be thankful for. I know that God has truly blessed me. Great writing! Thank you

Posted by: Christopher at 11/13/2008 10:42:55 AM

Thank you for the positive outlook! Life is too short not to be thankful!

Posted by: John Timmons at 11/13/2008 10:46:33 AM

I'm thankfull that I wasn't one of the millions of Americans that got in over their head in mortgages...but wait Mr.Obama is going to save them...maybe I should have gone in over my head???

Posted by: John Anderson at 11/13/2008 12:11:51 PM

12 Things to be thankful for: 1. My wife - just married 8/31; 2. My Health - I was burned at 2 1/2; 3. My Cat; 4. A house; 5. No Hurricanes this year (I live in Florida); 6. Family living nearby; 7. Heath Insurance; 8. An Education; 9. Savings; 10. My Tools to fix things; 11. A LOW 30 Year Fixed mortgage 12. Peace of mind knowing for right now I am OK.

Posted by: Travis at 11/13/2008 01:52:32 PM

Wonderful! Love it.

Posted by: Mike Gritz at 11/14/2008 03:02:14 AM

I'm glad to be born an American. With a roof to sleep under, a job to earn $ for food & property (happyness & security). We are blessed.

Posted by: Joe at 11/14/2008 05:38:32 PM

I am thankful for 3 healthy kids, My wife of 6 years, a nice home in a nice neighborhood, the ability to laugh every day!, being able to see my kids off to school in the morning,my mother in-law who watches my kids at our home!! My wife who loves me for who I am, being able to help my brother through a tough time in his life,my new treadmill and the ability to pay my bills! Wow! I feel great.

Posted by: Katie at 11/19/2008 03:27:14 PM

Healthy children, healthy self and spouse, healthy parents, my husband's secure job, a nice home,the fact that I have simple tastes, and that tomorrow is another day!

Posted by: andrew at 11/24/2008 03:59:29 PM

I always look forward to reading your articles

Posted by: Cindy at 11/26/2008 10:10:58 AM

Enjoyed your article very much! And it is so true. We live in a free country and lots of people are working and sacrificing to keep it free and maintain a stable economy and democracy. We have plenty to be thankful for this year.

Posted by: Morsia Hamilton at 11/26/2008 03:52:46 PM

I am going with the storm into some tuff time. ButI must say TUFF TIMES NEVER LAST ONLY TUFF PEOPLE DO!

Posted by: Debbie at 11/26/2008 11:50:06 PM

BELIEVE IT OR NOT; PRISON!!!! I WORK IN ONE AND I ACTUALLY LIKE IT. THERE IS ALWAYS JOB SECURITY, I GET GREAT BENEFITS, GOOD HOURS, AND A VERY FLEXIBLE BOSS. I AM EVER SO GRATEFUL FOR MY FOUR BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AND THE BEST HUSBAND IN THE UNIVERSE. I LOVE YOUR ARTICLE.

Posted by: Martha at 11/27/2008 10:47:51 AM

Totally agree! I wish I was smart enough to do all the money-wise things you did, but we're doing ok and HEALTH is something money can't buy. Thanks for the perspective.

Posted by: Felicia Shipp at 12/01/2008 10:26:54 PM

I am thankful for life, and all that it brings.

Posted by: Ms Davida at 12/02/2008 07:02:27 PM

I am thankful for my grandchildren, which is an extension of me, by the way of my child. The time i spend with them causes me to realize that life isnt about, money, fame or possessions its about family and all of the laughter, sorrows, that It may bring. Let's celebrate our life with the family we have been blessed with.

Posted by: Aunt Ginny at 12/11/2008 09:48:59 PM

Well, I just turned 62. Got my first grandchild last year. Lived to see Obama become President. Still married after 42 years to my guy. My Mom is still here and giving me pep talks. Oh Yeh! I have a lot to be thankful for.

Posted by: Rico Ballard at 01/14/2009 10:31:00 AM

I'm thankful for my Family, life, health, and strength. I lived to see 30 even though i am unsure what lies ahead. I have a girlfriend that has potential to be my wife.

Posted by: joycekay at 01/29/2009 07:03:56 PM

I am thankful that my family are all in pink health, thankful for the food we still have on the table, thankful my kids are growing up and learning to share mum and dad's burden, thankful that God never let me down in times of trouble..He's always there with me and for me !

Posted by: Emilia at 11/03/2009 05:11:41 PM

I am thankful for food, clothing, family, friends, my dog, heat, air conditioning, God, my house, school, my bed, meds, cars, and music! Beat that!

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