Ask the Editor, February 20: Questions on Tax Breaks for Caregivers
In this week's Ask the Editor Q&A, Joy Taylor answers four questions on whether you can claim your elderly parent as a dependent on your tax return and more.
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Each week, in our Ask the Editor series, Joy Taylor, The Kiplinger Tax Letter editor, answers questions on topics submitted by readers. This week she's looking at four questions on whether you can claim your elderly parent as a dependent on your tax return and more. (Get a free issue of The Kiplinger Tax Letter or subscribe.)
1. Claiming a parent as a dependent
Question: I care for my elderly mom. Can I claim her as a dependent on my 2025 Form 1040?
Joy Taylor: You must meet two rules to claim your mom as a dependent on your federal tax return. First, you must provide over half of her support. Second, your mom's gross income from taxable sources can’t exceed $5,200 for 2025 tax returns (the amount is $5,300 for 2026). If your mom receives Social Security benefits, only the taxable portion of the benefits is included for this purpose. Your mom does not need to live with you for you to be able to claim her as a dependent.
If you meet the tests, you can claim the $500 credit for other dependents on your 2025 Form 1040. However, there is an income limit. The credit begins to phase out when your adjusted gross income (AGI) exceeds $200,000 ($400,000 for married filing jointly).
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2. Claiming the dependent care credit for a parent
Question: I work and also take care of my elderly father. I pay for his care when I am at work. Can I take the dependent care credit for him?
Joy Taylor: The rules to claim the dependent care credit for an elderly parent are a bit more stringent than the rules for claiming the parent as a dependent. The $5,200 income test doesn’t apply, but the parent needs to have lived with you for at least six months during the year and be unable to care for themselves.
Other rules for the dependent credit must also be met. For example, expenses for the care must be incurred so you can work, and you must report the provider’s tax ID number on IRS Form 2441.
If your dad qualifies as a dependent for this purpose, you can claim a maximum dependent care credit of $1,050 for him on your 2025 Form 1040, depending on the amount of your income. Beginning this year, meaning for 2026 tax returns that you file next year, the maximum dependent care credit increases to $1,500 for one dependent.
3. Medical costs of an elderly parent
Question: My dad is 85 years old and has lots of medical issues. He doesn't live with me, but I pay all of his doctors' bills and other out-of-pocket costs that Medicare doesn't cover. Can I deduct those medical expenses if I itemize on Schedule A of Form 1040?
Joy Taylor: Taxpayers who itemize on Schedule A can deduct qualifying medical expenses to the extent that the total amount exceeds 7.5% of AGI. You can claim medical expenses that are not reimbursed by insurance for yourself, your spouse and your dependents. If your dad qualifies as your dependent (see answer to question 1), then you can deduct his eligible medical expenses that you pay for, subject to the 7.5%-of-AGI rule.
To qualify as a deduction, the expense must be incurred primarily to alleviate or prevent a physical or mental disability or illness. The broad list of eligible expenses includes out-of-pocket payments for medical services rendered by doctors, dentists, optometrists and other medical practitioners; mental health services; health insurance premiums (including Medicare Parts B and D); annual physicals; amounts paid for in vitro fertilization; prescription drugs and insulin (but not over-the-counter drugs); hearing aids; transportation to and from the doctor’s office; the unreimbursed costs of long-term care; and many home improvements to accommodate a disability or illness. For more information about what qualifies, see IRS Publication 502, “Medical and Dental Expenses.”
4. Driving a parent to doctors' appointments
Question: I live in New Jersey, and my elderly mom, who has dementia, lives in Brooklyn in New York City. My mom has Medicare and Medicaid; however, I help out with her medical costs whenever I can and drive her to the doctor's office. Can I deduct the cost of taking my mom to all of her medical appointments?
Joy Taylor: It depends on whether your mom qualifies as your dependent for tax purposes (see answer to question 1). If your mom does qualify as your dependent, then you should be able to deduct the cost of transporting her to her appointments and various other medical costs that you pay for as a medical expense on your Form 1040. Note, you must itemize on Schedule A and medical expenses are deductible only to the extent that total medical expenses exceed 7.5% of AGI.
You can use the IRS's standard mileage rates for medical driving. For 2025, the rate is 21 cents per mile. For 2026, it's 20.5 cents per mile. It seems that you would be able to deduct only the mileage from your mom's place to her doctors' offices. I don't think the cost of you driving from your home to your mom's place and vice versa qualifies as deductible medical transportation.
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We have already received many questions from readers on topics related to tax changes in the One Big Beautiful Bill, retirement accounts and more. We will continue to answer these in future Ask the Editor roundups. So keep those questions coming!
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Joy is an experienced CPA and tax attorney with an L.L.M. in Taxation from New York University School of Law. After many years working for big law and accounting firms, Joy saw the light and now puts her education, legal experience and in-depth knowledge of federal tax law to use writing for Kiplinger. She writes and edits The Kiplinger Tax Letter and contributes federal tax and retirement stories to kiplinger.com and Kiplinger’s Retirement Report. Her articles have been picked up by the Washington Post and other media outlets. Joy has also appeared as a tax expert in newspapers, on television and on radio discussing federal tax developments.
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